Even deeply carved
patterns can shift
Individual, couples & ketamine-assisted therapy in Berkeley, CA and virtual across California.
Ida Ahmadi
MFT, LMFT (they/them)
I offer individual, couples & ketamine-assisted therapy for people making sense of identity, culture, and belonging.
My approach is relational, interpersonal, trauma-informed, and collaborative. I’m engaged, curious, and present. I am direct and tend to ask a lot of questions. I’m genuinely interested in knowing and understanding your world.
Therapy is a commitment to learning about oneself and I’m your thought partner in the process—someone who can sit with you, think with you, and gently help you notice what might be just outside your awareness. And within the process, there’s space here for humor, honesty, and being real. This is work that we build together.
Individual Therapy
A space to explore patterns in your relationships, reconnect with your needs, and develop a stronger sense of agency in your life.
Couples & Relationship Therapy
For couples and non-traditional relationship structures focused on communication, dynamics, and building relationships that feel more aligned.
Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy
For those who feel stuck or like traditional therapy hasn’t fully helped, ketamine-assisted therapy can support new ways of processing and accessing difficult material.
Many of the people I work with are used to being the one who holds things together.
I work with individuals and couples, many of whom are queer, trans, non-monogamous, or navigating questions around identity, culture, and belonging. A lot of my clients are children of immigrants, people moving between cultures, or people trying to make sense of who they are in spaces that don’t always reflect them.
Maybe you:
are someone others tend to rely on: like a caregiver, high-achiever, or someone who holds a lot of responsibility
feel conflicted between your individual needs & desires and what your family/culture expects
are stuck in familiar yet painful patterns
find it hard to identify your own needs, set boundaries, or trust your instincts in relationships
want to find more meaning and direction in your life
Our work isn’t about changing who you are, it’s about cultivating greater understanding and awareness which creates more space for choice in your life.
My Approach
I draw from relational and interpersonal psychoanalytic psychotherapy, somatic work, and gestalt, depending on what feels most useful to you. I attend to identity and culture, and how that shapes your experience.
When I say “relational and interpersonal”, I mean that I utilize our relationship to support you and that it can also function as a laboratory to explore how you relate to people in your life. Together, we create a safe space to look at that in real time together.
When I say “psychoanalytic”, I mean that I attend to inner conflicts and repetitions that you’ve experienced throughout your life, and the role of the unconscious in those experiences.
Our work will often be more reflective and exploratory. At times, we may slow things down and pay attention to what’s happening in your body or in the space between us, always from a place of choice.
As a trauma-informed therapist, my approach emphasizes that the safety to explore in therapy is built by experiences that foster trust over time. Change happens when we cultivate trust and safety to be with your authentic experience together.
Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy
Sometimes the patterns we’re working with are difficult to access through talk therapy alone. Ketamine can help create a different kind of opening—one that allows for deeper processing and new ways of relating to your experience.
This work is always grounded in integration and care, moving at a pace that feels right for you.
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Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy pairs a legal, medically supervised dose of ketamine with the relational work we're already doing together. The medicine can temporarily soften some of the rigid patterns and defenses that keep things stuck, opening a window where new insight, emotion, or memory has more room to surface. My role is to help you prepare for that experience and then work with you afterward to make sense of it and bring it into your daily life.
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KAP tends to be most useful for people who've already done some work in talk therapy and feel stuck — like they understand their patterns intellectually but can't quite shift them. It's not a quick fix, and it's not a replacement for the relational work. It works best when there's already some trust and self-understanding to build on. We'll talk through your history and goals together before deciding if it's the right next step.
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Not necessarily, but I want us to have a real working relationship before we do this together. If you're new to me, we'll start with standard sessions so I can get to know you and your history — and so you can get a felt sense of whether I'm the right therapist for you — before we talk about incorporating ketamine.
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The ketamine therapy session typically lasts 3 hours. The medicine is taken as sublingual lozenges. The effects begin to appear after about 15- 20 minutes, peak for about 40 minutes, and dissipate over the following 1-2 hours.
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Ketamine has a long history of safe medical use, and KAP is done under medical supervision with careful screening beforehand. It isn't the right fit for everyone — certain medical and mental health histories rule it out — which is part of why intake is thorough. We'll go through your history together, and a licensed prescribing provider evaluates and approves every session.
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Every individual is unique in how many sessions they need. There is no set amount, however I recommend at least 3 KAP sessions spaced out about 3 weeks apart to begin to notice shifts.
"History is not the past, it is the present. We carry our history with us. We are our history."
—James Baldwin
You may be wondering…
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I work with adults individually, as well as with couples or throuples.
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I highly prefer in-person sessions and offer virtual sessions for people who do not live in Berkeley or Oakland.
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My fee is $255 for individuals and $285 for couples. My sessions are 50-minutes long.
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I offer coaching for people outside of California. That work is a bit different from what I’m describing here. If you are living outside California and are interested in working with me, please reach out so we can discuss what that looks like.
If you’re considering therapy, you’re welcome to reach out.
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